We all know what NOT to say in front of kids – but we forget they hear the things adults say differently than adults mean sometimes.
Years ago I did training sessions for a group of Tupperware salespeople in my home. Most of the dealers were female and Tupperware Parties were held at night, making it a good way for moms to make some extra money; they were very popular and a way of socializing.
A lot of the training was motivational. We used the pat business and training lingo, and terms of the day. Things like Time Management, the do’s and don’t of Closing a Sale, and some Important Tips to Being a Good Salesperson, KIS (kiss) Keep it Simple, etc.
I touched on personality and relationships with the customers. One of the things we talked about was selling yourself as a salesperson, and not only the product. The most successful were the people that formed good relationships with the customers, who then referred them to other customers.
Kids of course heard a lot of what we were saying, without us adults realizing it. In school, the kids were asked to tell what their parents did…many different answers; fireman, doctor, mom is a shopper, dad drives to work, I Don’t Know was a big one, (not many were too descriptive, because these kids were maybe 8 years old). One answered, My Mom goes out at night and sells herself! You can imagine what the teacher thought, and the note sent home.
Of course, once explained that the kid had overheard a motivational sales talk, it was funny – but not when teacher first heard it. Luckily, most of the kids did not get what was so shocking or funny.
I used this in later years to also illustrate to salespeople in any product or service line, that WHAT we say is not always HEARD the same way we mean it. So Watch How You Say Things…applies to life and business alike. Life is funny!